Mia Mattsson-Mercer Born in 1964, Sweden. Author to three books. Writing a web-column for the Magazine NARA. “That’s Amore” is my catch phrase. Finishing the manuscripts for two different books. Also HomeSchooling Mother. Worked: United States, Germany, Switzerland, Bosnien, Bulgaria, France, Ireland, Italy, Portugal and Bahrain Founder/CEO Animals Without Limits. I am a proud Lyme disease, Child Abuse and Animal Warrior.
Tuesday, March 31, 2009
Saturday, March 28, 2009
Friday, March 27, 2009
LUPA
I know it is selfish of me. I love you, and I am proud of you.
The Vet will come tomorrow, to help you on your final journey. But I am not at all ready. I know you are, and that you want peace now. I have to give you your peace that you are asking for, finally. But it is not what I want. I am heartbroken.
You were trapped in the horrible shelter. I wanted so badly to give you a longer time with love and freedom and comfort here with us. Maybe here in our love, now, you thought it has been a long time, and you want to continue your travel on your peaceful road to heaven.
Thank you, Lupa. For your time --- too short a time --- with us. Thank you for your love on this earth, this life. Rest easy. Your work here is done.
Thursday, March 26, 2009
Hit and Left... the closure
Sad news this evening.
The Vet clinic called to say that the blood tests on Franz were not good. He had a very elevated white-blood count, and signs of severe kidney and liver damage. They also believed he had tumors in his organ(s), and internal bleeding. They recommended euthanizing him.
Reluctantly, I had to agree. He was old and with these injuries, his life was going to be short and painful. Still, it was a tough decision.
So sad, no micro-chip. No collar or tags. No owner to call, nobody to mourn him, or miss him.
Later this night, they did the autopsy at my request. Here is part of the email I received from Dr. Friz:
Dear Mia,
the dog had a bad tumor in the liver and was hit by a car: bleeding in the abdomen, one of the kidneys was completely damaged. Thanks for collecting him and put him out of his misery.
Dorothea
Dear Franz, we are so sorry this was the end for you. But glad you are no longer in pain. Your work on earth this time is done. Bon voyage. Say hello to Morris for us.
Hit and Left
My husband came back this morning after a training event, and asked if I had seen the dog laying up on the median?
Yes I had, and now I found the opportunity to run up and see if the dog was ok.
Alberto from the animal store spotted me, Antionella from the flower store saw me, I signaled to them that this was an injured dog. I could see blood running from his nose.
When trying to get closer the dog tried to get away wobbling on his back legs. My wonderful husband came driving with my SUV and went out trying to stop the traffic (or slow down) so the dog wouldn't get hit again. Antionella, me and another Italian worked in a circle to try to corner and catch him. The Italian got my leash loop and threw it over the dogs head. Todd pulled up with the "rescue" SUV. The dog tried snapping at us (I would do the same, he was simply acting normal given the situation) so we put a jacket over his head before lifting him into the SUV. And off I went to the Vet clinic, missing my appointment with Jack at the obiedience training.
At LegaProAnimale, Dr. Gigi and Dr Friz came out and brought him in for examination. What I love with the vets AWL works with --- same goes for our own Dr. Inga --- is to watch them work gently, calm and loving with the strays.
Fortunately, nothing was broken, but he was bleeding from his male part, and nose. Probably internal bleeding as well. They put an IV in and did a blood test before I left.
Later today I will call to see how "Franz" is doing (I asked a trainee to name him for me). Please have Franz in your prayers.
Thank you Todd for your support even if you were in a hurry to get back to work. You took time helping this injured stray that was hit by a car, and left to die. Alberto and Antionella and "Italian man", without you I couldn't have caught the stray. Thank you for your big heart(s). And to you who donated money to AWL, he can now be treated, and get good care. Amore thank you all (tutti)
Picture will come up later--and update
Wednesday, March 25, 2009
Another Cleaning Mission Ahead
We will seek to clean the dogs and their kennels-- where these dogs are staying--.
The goal continues to be to make these dogs as adoptable as possible, and having them living in a quality environment both helps in their presentation, and in their mental attitude.
"Happy", clean, well cared for dogs are easier to adopt, and people are more able to picture the dog in their family if he/she is clean and well behaved.
Refreshments for the volunteers will be provided, and rides can be coordinated/provided as required. Time for wet Amore!
We Do Have Heros Too
The home was a complete loss, but when firefighters heard barking coming from the basement, they learned that not everything was lost.
"We heard a report that there were dogs in there and we were like, 'Oh no,' " Nathan Wilis said, a firefighter with the Pleasant View Fire Department.
When firefighters reached the basement of the home, the same area where it is believed the fire started, they found two adult Yorkshire terriers and 15 puppies.
"They were pretty scared," Wilis said. "They were cold, they were wet, so we wrapped them in blankets and towels. They actually didn't have enough, so they had to cut them in half to get them in blankets."
Amore Fire Fighters....
Still Remembering Flower
Tuesday, March 24, 2009
Update on Puppy Project
Please keep your fingers crossed for these amore siblings.
Internet Down
Our internet in the house is down. Italia Telecom assures us that it will be restored "soon".
We will post as soon as it is up and running again.
Keep your fingers crossed for the amore electrons!
Sunday, March 22, 2009
Two Amore Goofs
Saturday, March 21, 2009
Devotion & Love Makes Time
Devotion and love make time, and gives the animals hope. When you turn away from an animal in need, you are giving the evilness your power. When giving to the animals, you are giving the light strength, and you give the animals life.
This video is why I work every day. (It is not about being strong, it is about being true to yourself. No justifying.... )
If my daughter could watch it, so can you. Are you true to yourself? Can't you devote some time and love to help us help the animals that cannot speak?
They are speaking through this video to you.
Friday, March 20, 2009
Mumnemia & CompassionFatigue
I have been diagnosed by two friends--the two of them don't know each other--
My friend Ylva said to me, "Mia, you work to much, you suffer compassionfatigue."
I actually became happy hearing that beautiful word.....compassionfatigue....lovely.
And today, in the afternoon I took the kids and went to a British Forces Pub. Wow, since I am suffering from compassion fatigue, I thought I needed to be around happy loving British people having a cider. It was like walking into a big wonderful family. I like their relaxed way of having a pint on their way home. I ran into a friend, Jane, and I "complained" that I forget a lot of things lately and it drives me crazy.
Jane said, "Mia, you are suffering mumnemia!" (get it? anemia but since I am a mother of 2 small children and 12 dogs = lack of sleep=mumnemia)
Gosh, there are a lot of beautiful names, and I love wearing these names. I received them because of Amore.
Thursday, March 19, 2009
Tragedy in Southern Italy part 2
Read the article from yesterday's blog.
According to my friend who lives here, the media in that article did not write the following: The young boy slammed rocks and stones at the dogs to get to the puppies that the mother dog had hidden.
This is of course not an excuse, but one more explanation to what happened that the media didn't fully cover.
Also the German tourist had thrown something to eat and didn't have enough for all the hungry dogs. She became afraid when one of them got too "close" and started running. Of course, that triggered the dogs' reaction.
Once again, not an excuse but an explanation of what made these dogs do what they did and it turned out to be a big tragedy. Understanding the animals will go a long way to avoiding such incidents. Their behavior is not irrational, when you understand it and can see from their perspective, it is actually quite rational indeed.
Wednesday, March 18, 2009
A Tragedy For All
I never let Olivia, my daughter, out of my SUV when we are "on mission". She can sit on her knees at look out from the window while I am working with unknown animals. ---Those few times she goes with me-- Normally I do the missions in the mornings when she is in school.
AWL NEWS
Animals Without Limits receives interesting requests from people around the world. Let me share two of them;
"I'm a vet, worked in a private clinic in Israel for 4 years and currently I'm doing a shelter medicine internship with the University of Florida, USA. I thought maybe I can volunteer [with you] later on, after my internship ends, on September 2009 for a period. If it is something we can do we can meet in April, to discuss it. I'm very into animal welfare, early spay and neuter programs and infectious diseases."
And this summer one hard working animal worker will come down and help us out. Her resume is very interesting. She went to the Philippines to rescue dogs in slaughterhouses, thousands of dogs waiting in terrible conditions to be slaughtered in a harmful way.
Back home in Stockholm, she and her best friend run a dog cafe. It is in a very wealthy area, I used to live there, so I know that many women wear fur. So I love the sign on their door "Here only the dog wears fur"
More news will come up later!
Tuesday, March 17, 2009
One Brilliant Student
Fox is learning so fast, I am very proud over him. Fox, who had been locked inside a small lot his whole life; never have been in a car, never played with other dogs, never got to read human body language. His "human contact" consisted of a plate of food pushed in under the gate. When the plate was not reachable the person used an umbrella to pull it out for refiling. That is the extent of his "socialization". Pretty pathetic, on the part of the humans.
Our teacher said today that Fox is well behaved, since he allowed me to hang over him when trying to figure out how the heck his harness worked. It was tough, a brilliantly designed harness, in two colors so you knew which was up and which would go under the stomach. But still a struggle to put on for the first time.
Then he learned how to listen when hearing his name, and he who didn't even know his name, but after few minutes he got the hang of it. It took me the whole lesson (not my name... to keep track of the different commands, and when to reward!)
We tried a clicker. And gosh that was great, so on our way home we bought a yellow one....important with colors so I can spot it in a heartbeat were I put it the last time.
On our way home Fox and I went and fed the new puppies that AWL is going to try to help at the skeleton houses.
Fox was a brilliant student, like the teacher said, "he is very curious." And that is a good grade for a beginner.
This is Adonis. He is up for adoption. He is one of the five puppies at the skeleton house. More on him and his siblings in a later post.
Monday, March 16, 2009
Some You Can Save ~ Some Not
Also, we are waiting for the paper work, change of owner, that takes forever, or so it feels. And another one could not be saved.
Sunday, March 15, 2009
What A Weekend
Thursday, March 12, 2009
Today's Mission
Ok, Fox concentrate please! I went out and picked him up at the kennel and hung like another old rug after him as he pulled me out of his shelter area. He refused to jump into the car so I had to go and get help. 45 kg is not easy to pick up! The whole way to the obedience class, I told Fox we "will make this". I even stopped to meditate since we had time and we both needed to calm down.
We were greeted by the dog trainer Nikola at Agility Club Campania (professionally operated for 10 years and I have heard such good things about her from different nationalities and different problem owners ). I liked how she talked, I liked how she observed every movement I or Fox made, she really has the eye.
I told her the whole story about Fox and that I knew inside of myself that he is a good boy. Fox has nearly his whole life (well 1 or 2 years) been locked into a small lot without anything to hide inside for shelter. Kids would throw rocks or fire crackers, but one English lady fed him every day. As she was leaving, she asked AWL for help and I got this picture taken from above so he looked like a Jack Russel sized kind of dog. So I said yes to the lady's tearful, begging eyes. To my surprise when I met Fox he was not a 10kg Jack Russel, he was a 45 kg Goof!
But there is something he is sending, since many people that meet him, in person (dog) or through pictures, like him. We are a professional team and can be realistic in dog cases. (Well if I am not, hopefully someone else in AWL is, or our AWL vet Inga.)
Fox simply doesn't know anything. But it's not his fault. He has not grown up on the street learning how to think and survive in different situations. He has never lived with a family (or person) so he doesn't know what jumping into a car, or walking into a house means--it makes him insecure. He has never socialized or lived with other dogs, so he doesn't know how to read doggy body language. He is just a big goof that needs a calm, secure, motivated, consequent, hand....love comes through this. He needs a calm leader that can guide him, and he will give back a lot. I'm sure of it.
After one hour together with Nikola, not training, just talking and observing, she said "I thought he would be worse."
Also, "He is an honest dog!" Meaning, he will not try to fool us. If he is demonstrating something, it is real not a ruse.
Nikola thinks that if nothing else comes out (behavior) he should not be difficult to work with." Nikola, a million thanks today for your advice and great observing eye(s).
See you next Tuesday!
Yesterday's Mission
The puppies there are now getting big and my fear that someone will poison them, or have their dog kill them are tremendous. My instinct was right and confirmed when we stopped at the place nearby were a big dog lives and Dr. Inga asked the men to keep their dog under observation and let us be able to come and go for a couple weeks to work on the puppies.
I froze when I followed the vet into this place, like I could sense danger, the whole inside of me started to get nervous. I just wanted to leave. Thanks to Dr. Inga and her brilliant ability of telling them about our project, we have their permission and hopefully now can work on this mission. I am going to the puppies feeding them to get them to know me so we can catch and vaccinate them; we already have a foster family who can take care of them until May.
Wednesday, March 11, 2009
Tuesday, March 10, 2009
Giove and Fox and Me
Fox is a 40 kg dog who's never been walked before, and he pulls. Mightily. Last Saturday when my husband took him out, he hung after Fox like an old rug. I was laughing so hard that my tears rolled down. My big strong husband didn't think it was funny!
But, that means that Fox is going with me to an obedience class this Thursday!
And I who dislike obedience classes! I always look like the biggest idiot among everybody, and I am always dressed wrong, and I am always freezing. See how passionate I am, I rather pick poop for a whole week (well hey there, I already do that) than walking in the rain hanging after a dog who doesn't listen.
Ok, we want to give Fox a really good chance in life. Even if he is a 40 kg heavy dog with a mind of a four months old dog. Stay tuned for lesson number one this Thursday
(For you who doesn't know Giove or Fox, read earlier blogs)
Monday, March 9, 2009
Picture taken by Dr Inga at the local beach of her rescued dog Bella the Amore!
Sunday, March 8, 2009
What A Wonderful Weekend
We brought home our two kids from the kennel over the weekend, and it was wonderful. Twelve dogs in the house and everyone got along so great. Ariel and Nebbia are two of the dogs we rescued from the "terrible shelter" back in February. (more on earlier blog)
Nebbia the "aggressive dog" is resting on our patio and Roberto, who also comes from the same place (remember him with the ligament injury, also earlier blog). Roberto is doing great, happy, yappy and charming and his leg is completely healed.
Saturday, March 7, 2009
One Day In The Park
Friday, March 6, 2009
Love in the Air
Thursday, March 5, 2009
Morris Medication Memorial
Animals Without Limits wants to thank the organization Chans in Sweden for their generous donation. Thanks to them, we can continue our work on the streets helping the wonderful strays.
Medication, prevention and spay and neutering will be done in Morris' name and memory (see previous entries last weekend).
We will work in the territories he lived in, helping others who may share his diseases or circumstances, document and prevent, return every week to make sure that no one suffers in pain.
Also we want to thank Linda who donates one bag of dog food every week.
Now, we can feed the hungry ones in Morris' area as well.
All money goes to veterinarian care, that's what AWL's Amore policy is about
Thank you so much to everyone who make our work possible.
And by the way, Giove is recovering great from his hernia surgery that he had yesterday.
Happy and playful! Wouldn't we like all our patients (human adults) to be like that?
Wednesday, March 4, 2009
Others in Need
The phone number posted on the fence didn't exist, and the company name.... well, nothing.
Currently we are feeding through the gates and providing water.
This fantastic Animal Worker called the Carabinieri (national police), and hopefully they can do something.
I think we need help!
Tuesday, March 3, 2009
A Picture ~ A Hope
A wonderful Swedish journalist Erika, followed our story --- me and AWL --- and is making a reportage for an upcoming new magazine. I sent pictures, she visited the blog and fell in love with this little guy. Thanks to Ylva who took this picture, now Giove is going to have a family for the first time.
After "the terrible shelter" was closed the dogs from there were taken over by LEDA, an Italian organization. I went there today and picked up Giove. It is one month between the pictures.
This is Amore, Amore. Erika thanks for making this guy happy!