Labour Children of 2008

Sex tourism is throughout the whole world, and is most common in the poor countries where children have to survive day to day. Their youth gone, the time to explore life with children’s eyes are long past.
Plenty of men travel to buy sex from minders in South America—where the law is corrupted. A man who likes to be admired by their innocent, their firm body on top of his own old body.
They tell themselves that the children are older, and that they really love to do what they are doing--they wouldn't do it otherwise, right?
Trafficking is getting more common and many men hire younger girls and boys to have sex with. As an excuse from the buyers—“they want sex or they wouldn’t do it!”
Many men doesn’t want to take any responsibility, their selfish ego are bigger than their conscience. Their fantasies are bigger than trust, felling they are not harming anybody, just helping someone with their love.
I remember a man telling me --he lives half time in Paraguay-- that the young children hanged around him at the restaurant waiting to get his and others leftovers. These children getting their hungry stomach filled to survive another day, where no hope exists, and they would give sex in return. Their parents are gone, abandoned them at a young age, or in some cases, the children has to give their parents the money they earn through selling their body.
This is not Amore!

We who are born in a more "safe" countries—even if there is children who are getting abused in one way or another—there is some safety net—not great but that is because children are easy to manipulate, and not many believe their stories—have difficulty understanding this problem and many times we turn away from this huge problem, it doesn’t concern us. But their we go wrong in our thinking, it does concern us and we can do something about it. You can if you want!

Last week I visited a center for orphans—children of illegal immigrants, prostitutes, a result of incest, and those who have escaped from child labour. I had a talk with the founders, the Luciano family a strong hardworking family.
I will write more about them and my visit, and what YOU can do.
This is Amore!

Getting a Man on the Hook (Fork)

Earlier on, I wrote a little about prostitution here in southern Italy, in which the ladies are from different nationalities. Many are from Ukraine, Russia, Bulgarian and other former east block countries. Some of them work as cleaning ladies for the various NATO nationalities here, like: Amercian, English, Scandanavian and other European countries.

Some of the ladies work as prostitutes, and you can see them everywere, not in one area such as a "red light district". No, they are along the streets and highways. At summertime they are called "umbrella whores" because they are sitting under their colorfull umbrellas along the roads, protected from the hot sun.

Many of them are wearing fashionable dresses, very sexy and look really good. I spoke to one who said she was here a couple of months earning a lot of money and sends the money to her parents, who believes she is working as a Nanny for a wealthy family here in Italy. She would rather want to get married, and still she is hoping to meet someone here in Europe, hopefully an American.

One girl, twenty years-old told me how they work to catch a man and to get him to do anything for them. "First you make sure he is more interested in you, because then it is easier to 'play the game'" she said. "You dress sexy and are very willing in bed, pleasing him, and then you cook for him, pamper him like his mother did. You will have him eating out off your hand(or fork)!"

After three months--more or less-- they start to talk about his and their future. He will smile and tell them "time will tell". That's the clue to break up with him.

He will be so surprised and don't understand were it went wrong or why, he thought it was heavenly and he was the king for a short time.

"You 'play' hard to reach over the phone, when you speak to him you will be short, and make sure he sees you out at a cafe with another male (even if it is your gay friend)" she continued to expound.

He will do everything to get back what he believes is his, and then the girl will have him pleasing her.

If she doesn't get him, well, then she just "waisted three months and can fast find a new object. "

One hard working Polish girl (cleaning) was very sad to realise she had been here for six years now and had not found any man to marry. She is one of these "honest" girls, who dreams of finding another better life together with a soul mate. She told me maybe it was time to go back home, she wasn't getting any younger and the "market" was/is very hard the older you got.

An Italian friend told me that some time ago, the Italian women went out on the street protesting against "these" ladies. The Italian ladies had had enough and were upset that "these ladies' stole their husbands".

Many men had left their wives and children to first be pampered by an exotic young girl, and but then discovered; the grass is not always greener on the other side.

This is a mixed and confusing Amore!