Getting a Man on the Hook (Fork)

Earlier on, I wrote a little about prostitution here in southern Italy, in which the ladies are from different nationalities. Many are from Ukraine, Russia, Bulgarian and other former east block countries. Some of them work as cleaning ladies for the various NATO nationalities here, like: Amercian, English, Scandanavian and other European countries.

Some of the ladies work as prostitutes, and you can see them everywere, not in one area such as a "red light district". No, they are along the streets and highways. At summertime they are called "umbrella whores" because they are sitting under their colorfull umbrellas along the roads, protected from the hot sun.

Many of them are wearing fashionable dresses, very sexy and look really good. I spoke to one who said she was here a couple of months earning a lot of money and sends the money to her parents, who believes she is working as a Nanny for a wealthy family here in Italy. She would rather want to get married, and still she is hoping to meet someone here in Europe, hopefully an American.

One girl, twenty years-old told me how they work to catch a man and to get him to do anything for them. "First you make sure he is more interested in you, because then it is easier to 'play the game'" she said. "You dress sexy and are very willing in bed, pleasing him, and then you cook for him, pamper him like his mother did. You will have him eating out off your hand(or fork)!"

After three months--more or less-- they start to talk about his and their future. He will smile and tell them "time will tell". That's the clue to break up with him.

He will be so surprised and don't understand were it went wrong or why, he thought it was heavenly and he was the king for a short time.

"You 'play' hard to reach over the phone, when you speak to him you will be short, and make sure he sees you out at a cafe with another male (even if it is your gay friend)" she continued to expound.

He will do everything to get back what he believes is his, and then the girl will have him pleasing her.

If she doesn't get him, well, then she just "waisted three months and can fast find a new object. "

One hard working Polish girl (cleaning) was very sad to realise she had been here for six years now and had not found any man to marry. She is one of these "honest" girls, who dreams of finding another better life together with a soul mate. She told me maybe it was time to go back home, she wasn't getting any younger and the "market" was/is very hard the older you got.

An Italian friend told me that some time ago, the Italian women went out on the street protesting against "these" ladies. The Italian ladies had had enough and were upset that "these ladies' stole their husbands".

Many men had left their wives and children to first be pampered by an exotic young girl, and but then discovered; the grass is not always greener on the other side.

This is a mixed and confusing Amore!