FOCUS AND NO EXPECTATIONS

 Ok now what happen?

The time just flew away. I look at my children and get a little bit scared. They are growing up so fast.

Growing? Yes, I am also growing and on that growing- journey again. Thrilling and terrifiying. Changes, turmoils, fascinations a big mix of ingredients that will soon turn out to something great.

A couple of days ago I found myself saying out load while walking, "is this it?" Oh dear, that means more work finding out the answers to my inner questions.

Expectations! Is my roller-coast word. It works in some situations, and in some not at all. Work, relationships, children, hobbies and in myself....But when it works, not to have any expectations....it is good, very good. Life is good!

Stay focus on what you want. That is my inner sentence right now. Focus on what I want.

That's Amore!

Valentine Expectatons

And so it is valentine, and the expectations are on high alert for many today. The stores are hoping for big sales. Yesterday was like a valentine day for me, were many people made me feel loved, and my expectation was on zero level.

Max and I went in to the hospital, when a person walked up to me and said, "You look awesome mom."

At the clinic one nurse said to me, "Wow you are skinny" (well I took that as a compliment!)

At the food store, the manager (yes it is a woman) came up and said, "Look everybody how beautiful her son is, and his mom looks great too."

This is big time Amore! Thank you for filling my day with extra sunshine!